Where O Where are U tonight, I searched the world over….
And thought I found true love,
You met another….
First off, Demi many prayers go out for you to pull yourself up by the bootstraps. Can you Invoke some of that character you played in the role of G I Jane? It is still in there, Honey. You were so powerful in that role. You wouldn’t have gotten the role if it wasn’t in there to begin with!!! We ALL don’t want you to go the way of The Songbird who sang “I’m Every Woman”…Rest her glorious soul. Her choices lead to her choices. Have you heard the phrase: Take refuge in the Buddha, The Dharma and the Sangha.” Who do you keep company with: your Sangha? Gangs, drunks, thugs? What are you daily practices: Dharma? Snorting, Drinking, Cutting? Do you have an Enlightened Mindfulness Coach as your thought partner: Buddha? Someone who has a direct, living experience of the Buddhafield? The ONE without a Second? One who has attained the Golden Elixir?
Secondly, Ashton have you seen the movie SHAME???
The Power of the movie SHAME is so timely….Did anyone see the movie SHAME???? Now playing in independent theaters; starring Michael Fassbender. [Great performance Michael!! Kudos to You! Bravo and a Standing Ovation or two....] What an incredibly powerful, poignant and poetic performance. The feature depicts the power of the sex drive and how if it becomes UNCONSIOUSNLY activated can rule one’s life and conscious focus. The female lead was played very well, also… A must see. One definition of Enlightenment is the ability to take perspectives. How many different scenes acted out on the screen did you relate to? Were turned on by? Turned off by? Wish you had done? Can’t wait to do?
More Specifically, Ashton which of the scenes in the movie can you relate to? How many of the unconscious scenes acted out by the players on the screen have you engaged in, in this age of indulgence? You who are reading this? What level of communication, connection, communion did each of the “hook-ups” have? Was it A walk through a door with all of a 30 second greeting and a quick exchange of cash, a 30 minute conversation in a bar, 3 dates and dinners with a walk around the park somewhere??? How many years have you been communing with Demi? Would you characterize what you shared with Demi as communing? Do you have the skills to commune? Do you practice ejaculation/injaculation control? Are you working to grow your Immortal Jing Cycle? Did you ever say I Love You, to her? Did you mean it then? What does LOVE mean to you? Does your definition have connotations of Integrity, Dignity, Trust, and Honesty?
I had the great good fortune to witness two squirrels making love on my balcony this past week; in fact it was the day after I saw SHAME. They started on top of one pot, falling to the deck clutching each other, she would move to climb up onto another pot and then he would jump on top of her, position himself and jack-hammer her for a time and then she would roll to the deck and they did this over and over, pot to deck and back up, down and over to another planter for maybe about 5 minutes, 10 tops. I wondered how many times she experienced orgasm. How many times did He? How many times did he ejaculate? I didn’t see him grooving her G-spot. Nor did I see her delight his G-spot. It was fairly fast and furious to witness. I couldn’t tell if either was smiling and neither lit up a cigarette afterwards. How much have we as Homo sapiens evolved our sexual practices from squirrels?
And, then Ashton there is the added dimension of the bonds you shared and nurtured with her children. Generational pain and karmic process in the making… Father daughter bonding affects the quality of their future divine loves. Their children? Their children's children?
The Female American scholar, lecturer, author and philosopher Jean Houston said, “ It is important that women rise to full partnership with men in the whole domain of human affairs. This is happening whether men like it or not. As women rise, men are regaining some of their deepest capacities, instead of being so patterned by their traditional roles, which don’t work so well anymore as the economy and the ecology are collapsing. This is the time for women to get together WITH men and make them see what women can offer, such as the sensibility for process, patterns of connection, and –above all- creating wonderful strategies for issues in local communities; not as power, but with LOVE. This is giving us a very great and different perspective on the relationship; men and women are deeply, deeply, deeply needful of EACH OTHER. [see Jean Houston in an interview at www.womenontheedgeofevolution.com]
Demi the tabloids are depicting your need for love fairly clearly. Is Ashton a Flying Boy as defined by author John Lee? When did the breakdown of connections begin? Have the two of you built skills over the years to learn HOW to commune? What parts and pieces of the unfinished work between the two of you will you bring into your next relationship? IF you don’t grow back together to heal and grow the bonds that were broken during this break-up? And herein lies a major subject of concern for this New Age of Enlightenment. Can a Divine relationship include more than one partner? From my O Soma Drop perspective it is not wise or healthy to participate in multiple liaisons. Has anyone studied Barbara Brennan’s Hands of Light? She speaks of the knowing and creation of the subtle bonds that grow in relationships. These do tear and cause one pain. Ever feel the pain of a broken heart? On the subtle level there is wounding! Have you heard of the experiment of researchers that tore spider webs down everyday for so many days? After a given number of days the spider webs were so ungainly formed they no longer could catch the day’s daily bread. The patterning started off in beautiful forms of sacred geometry and resulted over time in strangled, spindly hap hazardous creations. What does Sacred Geometry look like over time between a couple who learns to commune?
Miracles happen everyday…can Demi and Ashton grow back together again?
Can WE as a species mature, evolve?
