Tuesday, February 14, 2012

Eternal Happiness for Demi And Ashton

Where O Where are U tonight, I searched the world over….
And thought I found true love,
You met another….






First off, Demi many prayers go out for you to pull yourself up by the bootstraps. Can you Invoke some of that character you played in the role of G I Jane? It is still in there, Honey. You were so powerful in that role. You wouldn’t have gotten the role if it wasn’t in there to begin with!!! We ALL don’t want you to go the way of The Songbird who sang “I’m Every Woman”…Rest her glorious soul. Her choices lead to her choices. Have you heard the phrase: Take refuge in the Buddha, The Dharma and the Sangha.” Who do you keep company with: your Sangha? Gangs, drunks, thugs? What are you daily practices: Dharma? Snorting, Drinking, Cutting? Do you have an Enlightened Mindfulness Coach as your thought partner: Buddha? Someone who has a direct, living experience of the Buddhafield? The ONE without a Second? One who has attained the Golden Elixir?

Secondly, Ashton have you seen the movie SHAME???

The Power of the movie SHAME is so timely….Did anyone see the movie SHAME???? Now playing in independent theaters; starring Michael Fassbender. [Great performance Michael!! Kudos to You! Bravo and a Standing Ovation or two....] What an incredibly powerful, poignant and poetic performance. The feature depicts the power of the sex drive and how if it becomes UNCONSIOUSNLY activated can rule one’s life and conscious focus. The female lead was played very well, also… A must see. One definition of Enlightenment is the ability to take perspectives. How many different scenes acted out on the screen did you relate to? Were turned on by? Turned off by? Wish you had done? Can’t wait to do?

More Specifically, Ashton which of the scenes in the movie can you relate to? How many of the unconscious scenes acted out by the players on the screen have you engaged in, in this age of indulgence? You who are reading this? What level of communication, connection, communion did each of the “hook-ups” have? Was it A walk through a door with all of a 30 second greeting and a quick exchange of cash, a 30 minute conversation in a bar, 3 dates and dinners with a walk around the park somewhere??? How many years have you been communing with Demi? Would you characterize what you shared with Demi as communing? Do you have the skills to commune? Do you practice ejaculation/injaculation control? Are you working to grow your Immortal Jing Cycle? Did you ever say I Love You, to her? Did you mean it then? What does LOVE mean to you? Does your definition have connotations of Integrity, Dignity, Trust, and Honesty?

I had the great good fortune to witness two squirrels making love on my balcony this past week; in fact it was the day after I saw SHAME. They started on top of one pot, falling to the deck clutching each other, she would move to climb up onto another pot and then he would jump on top of her, position himself and jack-hammer her for a time and then she would roll to the deck and they did this over and over, pot to deck and back up, down and over to another planter for maybe about 5 minutes, 10 tops. I wondered how many times she experienced orgasm. How many times did He? How many times did he ejaculate? I didn’t see him grooving her G-spot. Nor did I see her delight his G-spot. It was fairly fast and furious to witness. I couldn’t tell if either was smiling and neither lit up a cigarette afterwards. How much have we as Homo sapiens evolved our sexual practices from squirrels?

And, then Ashton there is the added dimension of the bonds you shared and nurtured with her children. Generational pain and karmic process in the making… Father daughter bonding affects the quality of their future divine loves. Their children? Their children's children?

The Female American scholar, lecturer, author and philosopher Jean Houston said, “ It is important that women rise to full partnership with men in the whole domain of human affairs. This is happening whether men like it or not. As women rise, men are regaining some of their deepest capacities, instead of being so patterned by their traditional roles, which don’t work so well anymore as the economy and the ecology are collapsing. This is the time for women to get together WITH men and make them see what women can offer, such as the sensibility for process, patterns of connection, and –above all- creating wonderful strategies for issues in local communities; not as power, but with LOVE. This is giving us a very great and different perspective on the relationship; men and women are deeply, deeply, deeply needful of EACH OTHER. [see Jean Houston in an interview at www.womenontheedgeofevolution.com]

Demi the tabloids are depicting your need for love fairly clearly. Is Ashton a Flying Boy as defined by author John Lee? When did the breakdown of connections begin? Have the two of you built skills over the years to learn HOW to commune? What parts and pieces of the unfinished work between the two of you will you bring into your next relationship? IF you don’t grow back together to heal and grow the bonds that were broken during this break-up? And herein lies a major subject of concern for this New Age of Enlightenment. Can a Divine relationship include more than one partner? From my O Soma Drop perspective it is not wise or healthy to participate in multiple liaisons. Has anyone studied Barbara Brennan’s Hands of Light? She speaks of the knowing and creation of the subtle bonds that grow in relationships. These do tear and cause one pain. Ever feel the pain of a broken heart? On the subtle level there is wounding! Have you heard of the experiment of researchers that tore spider webs down everyday for so many days? After a given number of days the spider webs were so ungainly formed they no longer could catch the day’s daily bread. The patterning started off in beautiful forms of sacred geometry and resulted over time in strangled, spindly hap hazardous creations. What does Sacred Geometry look like over time between a couple who learns to commune?

Miracles happen everyday…can Demi and Ashton grow back together again?
Can WE as a species mature, evolve? 

Sunday, December 25, 2011

Eternal Happiness for Kim and Kris

Dear Kim and Kris:

You two have been in the public Eye, on the front pages for some months with your trials and tribulations.  You dated for how many months? You two were intimate before the wedding? What were the contributing factors to your discovery of a deeper level of intimacy? Why turn away from each other when the going got tough? Did you think LOVE required no WORK to keep growing and maturing???????????????????????????????????

 Life in the real lane is not a Disney Fantasy! We ALL want to see a Happy Ever After Love story ending for you two.


Kan you love someone for a Thousand Years???

Merry Christmas

More Koaching Koming Soon.....


12/30/2011


In this Coaching Consulting excerpt the process of Integral Life Coaching will be discussed as well as how this approach differs from classical psychological therapy, i.e. marriage counseling. In coaching the term used is Units of Work.  This treatise will outline some specific Units of Work that may be addressed during coaching sessions. These specific areas of focus, concern and transformation may require more or less numbers of sessions as growth and transformation is organic in nature and many clients grow at different rates depending on inherent emotional and physical maturity.

Most specifically, the Integral Life Practices approach addresses Four Quadrants of habitation. These four quadrants can be understood as individual or collective aspects of interaction and either interior growth or exterior growth arenas. Wilber (2008) specifically defines these four dimensions of your being-in-the-world: your individual interior (i.e., your THOUGHTS, FEELINGS, INTENTIONS, and psychology), your collective interior (i.e., your relationships, culture and shared meaning), your individual exterior (i.e., your physical body and behaviors), and your collective exterior (i.e., your environment, social structures and systems).  As you can see the psychological aspect of your Beingness is a small aspect of this developmental model. It offers a complex and inclusive approach of a broad nature that will aid development in many areas of interaction. The psychological therapeutic approach is limited and works only to address dysfunction in the emotional arena of functionality focusing mainly on addressing behaviors and looking into the past. In contrast, this integral coach approach works to build skills, is future focused and aims to attain goals that the client identifies with the aid and positive reinforcement of the coach. The coach and coachee relationship is a mutual side-by-side relationship offering care and guidance to overcome obstacles and develop healthier habits to earning a healthier, happier life and livelihood.

With that said, DEAR Kim and Kris your story has been in the news for months and has been the topic of many conversations both personal and professional in my life. Please know I offer these words as encouragement and tools of reflection as a sincere hope for both of you to grow and contemplate. It is my most earnest prayer that both of you find inner peace and greater happiness in the coming months and years of your lives. All is not lost; many choices are yet to be made. Do both of you have the courage and emotional grit to dig in and work for a Happy Ever After New Beginning???

First off, my inclination is to ask when is enough, enough? You are both millionaires how many times over? What are your financial goals individually? As a couple? Are you working to gain more, as in quantities of goods? When do you upgrade to considering quality of interactions? Quality of Goods and Services? Have you considered giving back to the surrounding culture: Philanthropy? How do you upgrade your goals to incorporate this aspect of materiality? Also, does each of you respect the level of complexity and financial success each of you has gained so far in your lives? So young and so successful in other aspects of your lives, both of you have worked hard to achieve that success. Why not work to achieve success in your marriage? Why walk away so soon????????? I know bad behavior is bad behavior. And abuse is abuse. And verbal abuse is still abuse. Kym does Kris know how to apologize? Do you know how to forgive? Those are very important skills every happily married couple knows how to engage in and practice does make perfect!

About those verbal abuse issues, Kris does your coach use verbal negative talk to motivate you in the locker room? I played basketball in high school; we played for the state championship title. I can remember some pretty intense sweaty yelling in my face feedback from my basketball coach.  The intensity and competition was fierce at that level of play for girls. You play at the professional level of intensity, a whole magnitude of intensity beyond college level. And guy talk in locker rooms is pretty fierce to begin with add the pressure of winning and megabucks on top of that; well I can see where the verbal habits may have been conditioned. Now you are a married man, at least for a time you were. Willing to grow your skill levels? How many coaches have you had in your Pro Ball life? How many coaches have you contracted with to grow your relationship skills? It took you years of practice and thousands of hours of perfecting your skills to attain professional status in your field of expertise. Why not invest in an integral coach to perfect another aspect of your exteriority?

Yes, it takes two to Tango. From some of the tabloid reports it seems Kim quit first. You are no quitter? Mr. Professional Sportster, are you? It Sounded from reports that the cameras were getting to you. Was that one of the reasons for the verbal outbursts, underlying pain and frustration. That game plan did not change, you knew that going in.  Look on the bright side; you have a readymade marketing machine right at your doorstep. How can you invest in products that would grow the sustainability of our markets? You are a tall, handsome man. What manufacturer of male clothes produces organically grown fabrics stateside for men? Is there one in operation? Can you work with one designer to create such a line of men’s wear? Sustainable and American made for the Integral Man! For me, I can no longer wear fake fabrics the ones made of plastic and their cousins. I start to feel out of sorts after about an hour or so. What other fabrics would benefit the circulation of Chi. The chakra system is a step-down transformer of Energy that requires practices and attention to maintain and sustain the system at optimum and growing levels of amperage. In other words, the circuitry of your bio-electric system is continually stepping up in its ability to hold a load. A load in electrical engineering is the ability of some device, in this case your body, to hold a load. Upgrading the resistance of your circuitry is key to growing your awareness and creating the Golden Elixir. More charge, electricity in the system more complex chemistry can be manufactured, more chakras are open and flowing which results in more Enlightenment in the system. How about some shoe brand that allows for more Chi to flow up from Mama Earth? One that is made of a conducting sustainable material; one that could be adapted to court useage? The New Air Kris? Speaking of Michael Jordan, he was game to get Enlightenment/mindfulness into the NBA. What mindfulness practices do you engage in? Do you meditate at all? Do you know when you step into the ZONE? Know HOW to do that repeatedly, when you choose to? Flow states are another key skill to understand and incorporate into your Integral Life Practice!

Speaking of Sustainability, Kim I just recently saw another headline featuring sweatshop allegations about your line of products! Tsk, Tsk, What can you do to insure that sustainability practices are carried out throughout your product lines? How about featuring a reality segment focused on what Sustainability means in manufacturing. How the three P’s of People, Process and Planet are all being factored into your products manufacturing from Cradle to Cradle!!!

One definition of Enlightenment is the ability to take perspectives. Kim you are a very beautiful WOMAN. You are also a powerful and financially successful individual. Do you have enough to feel comfortable sharing? How can you actively embody The Feminine Divine, to BE The Muse aspect to inspire others to achieve excellence in their lives? How can you inspire Kris to be a better man to want to take care of your relationship? How many times in your relationship did both of you think in terms of WE, Instead of taking the individual approach of me or my time or my projects? It takes time and the acquisition of skills to think as a couple to nurture the relationship. Growing from a single lifestyle, perspective into a couple-ship takes work and consideration.

Kris why did you change so much after the wedding? The tabloids were filled with descriptions of your bad behaviors! Telling Kim she was fat, pushing her buttons and your angry verbal outbursts. What was really going on for you? Can you dig a little deeper, what were the more passive aspects of self underneath those aggressive traits? I am sure it can be tough for a big, tough athlete to get in touch with his more delicate sensitive emotional self. What were the hurt, upset and disappointing aspects of life after the honeymoon? Yes, it is difficult for a man to cry in our society, express sadness and hurt in a healthy manner without yelling, beating up the furniture,  or someone else. Know how to write a letter? Know how to Send flowers? Know how to Contract with a coach to engage in healing coaching conversations? Does Kym have listening skills to hear your perspective? Does She need to learn how to give you the space and time to communicate in a less aggressive manner? Did you step into intensity without feeling the ebb and flow of healing and growing into deeper connections with each new interaction? Trust is a delicate and powerful commodity. Caring for each other’s emotional health is just as important as concern for the physical vessel of life. Food for the body, food for the soul, food for the emotional self and food for the spirit, all important skills needed to nurture an integral relationship.

 Yes, Kim has a fleet of folks at her beck and call to make every moment of her life more perfect? Did she expect you to kow-tow to her every wish to making her life more to her wishes? Did your needs get brushed under the rug? Were you able to voice your needs in a caring and considerate manner? “Hey Babe, I’d really like it if we did, blah, blah, blah” Can you take no, standing on your feet? Do both of you know how to argue and come to a mutually satisfying arrangement. Couples who have healthy arguing skills grow together instead of apart. Learning and growing through the ups and downs. Or agree to take turns and gee wow, maybe share responsibility for decision making.

Kim you are 30 years old and have dated how many Men? Something about Kris made you step to the next level of commitment with him. Why give up so soon? How many professional coaches have your contracted with to build your businesses? You have relationships with your sisters that have lasted for how many years? Did they go through ups and downs? Did you think you were going to develop trust and the same level of intimacy overnight? How many arguments have you had with your sisters? Mother? Brother? Father? Step-Father? Were you comparing your relationship with your husband to those bonds you have developed over years with other important people in your life?

And speaking of important people what does your Step-Dad, Bruce Jenner have to say about the developments in your marriage. Have you spoken with him? Asked his advice? He is a Gold Medal Olympian of not just one sport but 10, a Decathlon Champion. He married a woman with FOUR children from a previous marriage and then created a couple more. He is not a lazy man; He knows what it takes to make a relationship work! Your MOM looks to be a healthy, happy and well loved woman. What does She think about your short married life? It would be wonderful to work with them as Integral Life Partners to grow their Golden Elixir! She is of a ripe age. The illusion of what menopause is for women with all that natural heat being generated! Boy O Boy, those two could step right into some pretty complex processing with their years of trust and resolution skills. If you and Kris don’t step up, how about motivating your Mom and Step-Dad into biting the bit of developing an Integral Lifestyle???

Back to Kim and Kris, Don’t get me wrong, verbal abuse is verbal abuse. It is not something I would recommend anyone tolerating for any length of time. But then, how many professionals did you two contract with to aid you two to grow skills to create a successful, happy marriage, an integral relationship? You two are hard driving, high profile successful professionals in your own right. Did you think the Law of the Harvest would start with harvesting? One needs to till the soil, plant the seeds, water the crops, weed the garden, add the fertilizer; some folks play classical music to their plants and even sing to them. There are many steps and stages to any process before you get to harvest the yield of your endeavors. In this case, HARVEST MEANS a happy marriage, kids and years of good times and memories.

Did you think it was NOT going to require added effort? Marriage takes work, hopefully happier and happier work to grow fun and sharing more Beauty together, creating romantic and intimate times. How many levels of intimacy do you two know how to share? Have either of you developed your Tantric skill set to be able to connect at the energetic level of interaction. Have either of you stepped into transcendental connections? Know what that means? Experienced the pleasures of YabYum? Kris you are a professional athlete, you would have great conditioning and be able to go the distance. Know more complex processes other than bouncing on Kym as long as you can before you shoot your load? Yes, that about sums up the unconscious sexual practices of those who have yet to dive into more complex and more pleasurable, sexual BLISS manufacturing skills. Kim walked away pretty fast, DaddyO….need to grow some skills in that department too??? Complexity theory applies whole=heartedly to an integral relationship. The more you know the more you want to know, it grows and flowers your Alchemical System into producing the Nectar of Immortality. And, it is named for the process, the Jing Cycle that it activates. Immortality takes an added level of practice and process. It is post-Enlightenment practice. Technically, in my lineage the label for Enlightenment can be equated to Christ Consciousness. And, post-Enlightenment is Brahman Consciousness. Have you studied those levels of awareness? Know how to attain Christ Consciousness? Want to activate your Golden Elixir responses? Eternal Life means just that. Personally feel the prophesized Golden Age of a thousand years is limited. Eternity means ETERNITY. However long we can co-create that to be created, creatively.

In this treatise, a few areas of concern were addressed. Each quadrant of experience requires specific skill sets to grow and mature that connection. Additional skill sets can address areas of social intelligence, cultural intelligence, emotional intelligence, SEXUAL intelligence and spiritual intelligence. In short, developing an Integral Lifestyle takes practice, patience and process.

Is anyone else interested in growing their Immortal SELF???

In my undergraduate studies of Environmental Science biodiversity was an important and some would say seminal understanding of creating a healthy living environment. How can we as a people of this most Beautiful and Majestic Planet sustain our environment as we grow into an Immortal Lifestyle. Are we like the viruses depicted in the movie Matrix, consuming without regard for the whole? My fascination for flocking behaviors in species to this day holds my awareness unbounded. Also, do you know how many species only take ONE mate during their material existence on this Sister Gaia, Third Rock from the Sun? Schools of Fish, Flocks of Birds, and Gaggles of Geese…. Birds of a Feather, Flock together.

Geese honk to each other on their migratory path, each has a unique voice. We recognize each other’s voice on the phone in a few syllables. So do geese when they flock together. Why do geese fly together thousands of miles? Why don’t we see individual geese just hap-hazardously making a beeline South?  Why the V shaped form? All first cousins formed together? Are they all wearing the same signet ring? Seems like it would be a lonely and boring flight by oneself? Seems more fun, honking and flying and encouraging each other along….

When you look at a gaggle of geese,
Kan you see the Kaptain of the Gaggle Kalling out
With a recognizable, encouraging voice 
2 short and ONE long honks….Honk, Honk, HOOOONNNKKKKK
Pick up the pace
There is turbulence ahead, Be careful…. Honk, Honk, HOOOONNNKKKKK
There is rain up ahead we need to detour…. Honk, Honk, HOOOONNNKKKKK
Come on Kim learn forgiveness…. Honk, Honk, HOOOONNNKKKKK
Come on Kris learn how to apologize and make your wife hear it with sincerity…. Honk, Honk, HOOOONNNKKKKK
Come on Kim, How many folks do you have in your retinue, working to make every little detail perfect for your pleasure. Did you want your Husband to act like one of them??? He has needs, desires as well…. Honk, Honk, HOOOONNNKKKKK
When do you Two want to learn a higher level of Sexual Engagement…. 
Honk, Honk, HOOOONNNKKKKK
To Infinity and Beyond….Honk, Honk, HOOOONNNKKKKK

Blessings BE and wishing you Two a Happy New Year,
Ashoka Ishaya

Sunday, July 31, 2011

Eternal Happiness for J Lo and Marc Anthony


The bets in Vegas stopped at five years! Is the grass greener on the other side?
Jennifer, How many marriages have you been through? And, now you have two children with this Husband. Articles state that you have been through some “talk couples therapy”. Have you engaged in learning any Tantra skills??? You two had LOVE in the beginning? Do you want to start all over again from the beginning with another man????? It hasn’t been easy for the other Jennifer A.
It would seem that the two of you are very well matched. You are both talented! [Loved you as a Judge on that musical show.] You both have the same cultural heritage and share the same religious heritage? None of the articles stated what faith either of you practice, but odds are with your Latin heritage you would be Catholic? How deeply do you practice your faith? Then again, Catholics have yet to dive into truly understanding what it means to embrace and engage in creating a Holy Relationship: An Integrally informed, sexually knowledgeable, mature couple-ship. Jennifer how deeply committed are you in gaining skills to LOVE the Beloved on the outside? Have you gained skills to love the beloved on the inside: have you developed your interiority? In other words, do you MEDITATE??? What level of mindfulness skills have you developed? Do you Understand the endpoints to stabilizing Enlightenment? Do you know how to mature your alchemical processes? Do you know which sexual position activates what processes? Are you curious to learn?
Jennifer, You are a BEAUTIFUL and powerful woman. And Yes it does seem that Mark Anthony has his issues [we’ll get to him a bit later]. For your part, it would seem that Mark Anthony did meet your sensual needs in the beginning. Looking at the list of your previous paramours it would seem that your experience level would have been such that you could tell when your needs were being attended to. Now my Q to U, is have you walked into the Tantra Arena with any of your MEN? Can you and Mark Anthony step into a deeper level of connection??? With yourselves????? With EACH OTHER????? You have two very good reasons to dive into these depth processes = Max and Emme. Reports state you are a caring and hands-on Mother. Can you bring that same intensity to your Relationship with your MAN???
How many marriages does it take to get through the wall of your defenses and truly express the GODDESS [I use that label in the truest sense of expressing your Divine Feminine!] within? You could be an even more powerful role model to women, once you integrated this body of knowledge into your BEingness. Can you get past your Catholic conditioning? Do you have inhibitions to expressing your energetic and fully integrated self in BED? [ Do you hang onto the bedposts and think of England? O, that is the next couple featured…tune in for couple #2] What skill level do you engage in to keep your man coming back for your more? One article stated that Mark Anthony was “caught” with a stewardess. Is that to be believed? Why would HE be looking at another woman if HE were only thinking to get back to his woman for more
TRANSCENDENT SEX!!!
 Know how to engage in transcendent sex??? Do you Have the skills to fire up your MAN so HE won’t want to let you go??? Looking is different than touching and tasting. And, there are different levels of intimacy. There is intimacy in friendship and it is very healthy to have friends of the opposite sex. Wouldn't you agree? NOW, creating intimacy and sexuality together fosters a different order of connection. Then you take that intimacy and sexuality and combine it with Energetic, Tantric Lovemaking and you both step into an even higher order of ECSTATIC UNION. Can you say that you have experienced that level with a MAN? Ever? With Mark Anthony, your Husband? Would you like to learn new skills? Let go of old ones, that don’t seem to be working for you???
Now Mark Anthony it’s your turn to stand up and BE the God [Divine Embodied Perfected] Man that you were born to become. Do you practice a faith? Let me guess, you are Catholic, Too? Ever learn any Tantric Lovemaking Skills? Think Tantra is a dirty word? Forbidden fruit for a man of faith? Ecstatic Union between a truly embodied God and Goddess: Heiros Gamos…. [Sounds like the words to a love song?]
How many times in a day do you masturbate? Yes, that is a spiritual practice! It cultivates your Jing! Have you learned how to separate your ejaculation response from your Orgasmic Response!!! Yes, the teenage response of allowing them to take place AT THE SAME TIME can be matured, evolved into a whole new order of body responses. Of course, it will take a whole new order of anger management to deal with that heightened level of passion and activation. Articles state that is one of your growing edges: anger and control issues. Gaining this level of activation and knowledge requires a maturity in expression of your emotional pantheon. Acting out hurt and anger can become destructive to yourself when dealing with the Mature Alchemical Processes. [One becomes quickly cognizant of how anger heats the system, too much heat causes pain that one feels within! Isn’t that great, the return curve of karma is contained within your personal arena. You don’t have to wait till someone steps into their power and reflects how your expression caused them pain…you get to feel it instantly within your interiority!] Do you have issues expressing yourself in a constructive, caring passionate way? Do you hold your passion within? Only sharing it physically in BED? Within your Marriage? Or do you have to take that part of self, Like Tiger Woods, outside of your nuptial chamber?
Now for the Both of You. Have you heard of the saying, “Couples who play together, stay together!” What activities do you do together? Play any sports together? One article stated you learned to dance together. How did that learning go? Jennifer you are quite an accomplished dancer! [Loved you in, Shall We Dance!!! That Tango lesson was so Beautiful and the music, O Be Still My Heart.] Mark did you learn to be a good lead to your Lady? Held your frame and allowed her to be the Picture? [Taught Ballroom Dance for a time….one of my passions!] Ballroom Dancing is a lifetime sport. And Gentlemen it is true, if you can’t Dance in time and with rhythm chances are you are NOT very skillful at the Horizontal Rumba either. Jennifer and Mark did you move into learning Argentine Tango??? You are very well matched physically; intimacy and skill on the dance floor is easier to accomplish when the Man and his Lady are the same body size. The frame in Argentine Tango is very intimate! The lead has to be powerful and yet masterfully delicate. Have you considered taking Argentine Tango lessons as Dance Therapy? Your bodies need to be closely connected to feel the movement through the flow of your body movements and in rhythm to the music! To grow your couple-ship skills? To master your energetic connection? To communicate your body movements without talking? Growing Vertical skills is as important as the Horizontal ones…well, maybe a close secondJ.
Dear Jennifer and Mark, many prayers go out for you BOTH to grow into your Divinity. May you see this recent separation as a challenge to step into gaining Integral Life Skills.
Wishing you much LOVE and Ecstasy,
Ashoka Aurora Ishaya.