The bets in Vegas stopped at five years! Is the grass greener on the other side?
Jennifer, How many marriages have you been through? And, now you have two children with this Husband. Articles state that you have been through some “talk couples therapy”. Have you engaged in learning any Tantra skills??? You two had LOVE in the beginning? Do you want to start all over again from the beginning with another man????? It hasn’t been easy for the other Jennifer A.
It would seem that the two of you are very well matched. You are both talented! [Loved you as a Judge on that musical show.] You both have the same cultural heritage and share the same religious heritage? None of the articles stated what faith either of you practice, but odds are with your Latin heritage you would be Catholic? How deeply do you practice your faith? Then again, Catholics have yet to dive into truly understanding what it means to embrace and engage in creating a Holy Relationship: An Integrally informed, sexually knowledgeable, mature couple-ship. Jennifer how deeply committed are you in gaining skills to LOVE the Beloved on the outside? Have you gained skills to love the beloved on the inside: have you developed your interiority? In other words, do you MEDITATE??? What level of mindfulness skills have you developed? Do you Understand the endpoints to stabilizing Enlightenment? Do you know how to mature your alchemical processes? Do you know which sexual position activates what processes? Are you curious to learn?
Jennifer, You are a BEAUTIFUL and powerful woman. And Yes it does seem that Mark Anthony has his issues [we’ll get to him a bit later]. For your part, it would seem that Mark Anthony did meet your sensual needs in the beginning. Looking at the list of your previous paramours it would seem that your experience level would have been such that you could tell when your needs were being attended to. Now my Q to U, is have you walked into the Tantra Arena with any of your MEN? Can you and Mark Anthony step into a deeper level of connection??? With yourselves????? With EACH OTHER????? You have two very good reasons to dive into these depth processes = Max and Emme. Reports state you are a caring and hands-on Mother. Can you bring that same intensity to your Relationship with your MAN???
How many marriages does it take to get through the wall of your defenses and truly express the GODDESS [I use that label in the truest sense of expressing your Divine Feminine!] within? You could be an even more powerful role model to women, once you integrated this body of knowledge into your BEingness. Can you get past your Catholic conditioning? Do you have inhibitions to expressing your energetic and fully integrated self in BED? [ Do you hang onto the bedposts and think of England? O, that is the next couple featured…tune in for couple #2] What skill level do you engage in to keep your man coming back for your more? One article stated that Mark Anthony was “caught” with a stewardess. Is that to be believed? Why would HE be looking at another woman if HE were only thinking to get back to his woman for more
TRANSCENDENT SEX!!!
Know how to engage in transcendent sex??? Do you Have the skills to fire up your MAN so HE won’t want to let you go??? Looking is different than touching and tasting. And, there are different levels of intimacy. There is intimacy in friendship and it is very healthy to have friends of the opposite sex. Wouldn't you agree? NOW, creating intimacy and sexuality together fosters a different order of connection. Then you take that intimacy and sexuality and combine it with Energetic, Tantric Lovemaking and you both step into an even higher order of ECSTATIC UNION. Can you say that you have experienced that level with a MAN? Ever? With Mark Anthony, your Husband? Would you like to learn new skills? Let go of old ones, that don’t seem to be working for you???
Now Mark Anthony it’s your turn to stand up and BE the God [Divine Embodied Perfected] Man that you were born to become. Do you practice a faith? Let me guess, you are Catholic, Too? Ever learn any Tantric Lovemaking Skills? Think Tantra is a dirty word? Forbidden fruit for a man of faith? Ecstatic Union between a truly embodied God and Goddess: Heiros Gamos…. [Sounds like the words to a love song?]
How many times in a day do you masturbate? Yes, that is a spiritual practice! It cultivates your Jing! Have you learned how to separate your ejaculation response from your Orgasmic Response!!! Yes, the teenage response of allowing them to take place AT THE SAME TIME can be matured, evolved into a whole new order of body responses. Of course, it will take a whole new order of anger management to deal with that heightened level of passion and activation. Articles state that is one of your growing edges: anger and control issues. Gaining this level of activation and knowledge requires a maturity in expression of your emotional pantheon. Acting out hurt and anger can become destructive to yourself when dealing with the Mature Alchemical Processes. [One becomes quickly cognizant of how anger heats the system, too much heat causes pain that one feels within! Isn’t that great, the return curve of karma is contained within your personal arena. You don’t have to wait till someone steps into their power and reflects how your expression caused them pain…you get to feel it instantly within your interiority!] Do you have issues expressing yourself in a constructive, caring passionate way? Do you hold your passion within? Only sharing it physically in BED? Within your Marriage? Or do you have to take that part of self, Like Tiger Woods, outside of your nuptial chamber?
Now for the Both of You. Have you heard of the saying, “Couples who play together, stay together!” What activities do you do together? Play any sports together? One article stated you learned to dance together. How did that learning go? Jennifer you are quite an accomplished dancer! [Loved you in, Shall We Dance!!! That Tango lesson was so Beautiful and the music, O Be Still My Heart.] Mark did you learn to be a good lead to your Lady? Held your frame and allowed her to be the Picture? [Taught Ballroom Dance for a time….one of my passions!] Ballroom Dancing is a lifetime sport. And Gentlemen it is true, if you can’t Dance in time and with rhythm chances are you are NOT very skillful at the Horizontal Rumba either. Jennifer and Mark did you move into learning Argentine Tango??? You are very well matched physically; intimacy and skill on the dance floor is easier to accomplish when the Man and his Lady are the same body size. The frame in Argentine Tango is very intimate! The lead has to be powerful and yet masterfully delicate. Have you considered taking Argentine Tango lessons as Dance Therapy? Your bodies need to be closely connected to feel the movement through the flow of your body movements and in rhythm to the music! To grow your couple-ship skills? To master your energetic connection? To communicate your body movements without talking? Growing Vertical skills is as important as the Horizontal ones…well, maybe a close secondJ.
Dear Jennifer and Mark, many prayers go out for you BOTH to grow into your Divinity. May you see this recent separation as a challenge to step into gaining Integral Life Skills.
Wishing you much LOVE and Ecstasy,
Ashoka Aurora Ishaya.
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